Looking at the interactive parts catalog here:
https://catalog3d.winnebagoind.com/menu/Parts.htm
This can give us a way to look behind things without taking them out! One of the things I wanted to look over is the idea of seeing behind the heater to check the fittings there as they are far more trouble than the tank leaking.
Have you looked there and assured there are no leaks? A very slow leak like you report might be easy to miss if on the backside of something and running down to come out at a different point?
Rosie eyed thought is you might be able to get a good vies through some access they left for the bypass valve for winter?
I like to use tissue paper to wipe around the fittings as it changes appearance if it gets even a dropof water on it.
It also shows an option 53D that may/ may not be there on your RV?
New toys always come with new questions, so thought to mention this idea as much better than a full blown heater change!
My thoughts on the tank failure is that they last a long time but when they rust enough for a pin hole, it doesn't seem to take long before it is a full stream.
But you may know for sure as you can see things much better than from here!!
Best of luck and hope it fits to just tighten something!