Lots of different questions that need lots of different answers!
1. When everything is working normally the house batteries are about 13.2.
This can be explained by one of the confusing things we have in RV.
I made this drawing to show what should happen.
Not full details but just the big idea?
When we have 110AC power from the plug or generator, it comes to the converter which then "makes" 12VDC to go to the 12V fuses and the batteries to charge them. From the fuses, the 12VDC goes to most of the RV things that use it.
Mostly smaller stuff like lights, vent fans, water pump and the controls for the bigger stuff like air cond., furnace, and some of the monitor panel.
NOT the outlets where you plug things like heaters, hair driers, TV!
The converter should put out 12VDC to power most of this stuff and also charge the coach batteries. BUT this only works if the disconnect switch is closed/engaged to turn the power on! Lights won't work and often the power from converter doesn't go to the batteries. They are cut off!
When plugged in power goes from the cord all the way through to the lights, etc. But when we unplug, the power should come from the batteries to the fuses and to all those things!
But, at the same time there is another set of wires that come from the cord and feed things that need higher power from 110AC! Air conditioners, outlets where we plug hair driers and heaters are big power users. The electric heating for water is a big user, too.
So we get something like this when we add the 110AC part to the drawing.
When plugged in and all running right with disconnect switch closed, power comes in, the converter makes 12v and passes it to RV stuff and also stores extra in the batteries. At same time110AC comes in and powers things that need it!
Then when we unplug, power from the cord to 110AC things is cut off and the converter stops making 12Volt for inside stuff like where I put the red marks.
BUT we expect the battery to have stored power and it then feeds the power out to the inside RV things!
So when something stops, we need to decide which system it is supposed to get power from, chassis stuff like the normal truck has a different set of fuses or breakers and we have to get that info from the chassis builder.
RV stuff has both AC and dc fuses or breakers, so we need to figure which set to check. I drew the lines like the air and outlets are on one set of wires but they are all on different wiring from the breakers out.
What I "think" might be happening is that the coach batteries are not getting charged from the converter OR they are not in good shape to store that charge. When the disconnect switch is off, they won't charge, so that needs to stay on until you have reason to turn it off, like while stored!
What I think is happening is the coach batteries are down, either not getting the charge to them or not storing it.
When you unplug, the power from the converter stops but the power from the batteries is not good enough to keep 12 Volt things working!
Explanation of why the monitor says the coach batteries are good is because the converter is working at that time. The monitor is really seeing the power from the converter but there may/may not be any stored in the batteries!
It can be as simple as the batteries are worn out and dead or as hard to find as dirty cables keeping the power from getting from the converter to the batteries!
Dirty cables are cheaper but harder to find because we have so many places to look. Where the negative cable from the batteries goes down and connect to the frame behind the batteries is one that is often overlooked. Out of sight, out of mind?
For running the heater and avoid tripping breakers, try to look at how to put them on different sets of wires and different breakers. Try to look at this chart of the 110AC for your RV to see which outlets are on different breakers!
https://www.winnebago.com/Files/File...ire_158650.pdf
Try to spread the load out on different breakers when using high power things. you will have to try a few places that look right but the idea is not to put the hair drier and heater both on the same time or turn one off while using the other? The galley can be fine but turn the heater off before using the toaster?
If you go too close to the max, trace that wire back to find which breaker may trip! No harm done but not something you should do every day as they can get worn out!