To Larry from the Mother
Hello,
I appreciate your advice and concerns. I am “the friend” and mother of the child in question. I am also quite well prepared to handle her academic needs. I am a fully licensed teacher with a Masters of education in curriculum development and instruction with a focus on STEAM (that’s short for science, technology, engineering, art, and mathematics) taught as a trandisciplinary approach to learning. What my daughter enjoys is learning and doing so in an environment in which she feels safe and in control, as well as supported.
I am, and will always be, her biggest advocate. I will do whatever I need to do to support her, whether that is moving across the country or across the globe. Raising a child on the autism spectrum is not an easy task. However, one of the greatest factors to successfully helping your ASD child learn proper coping and social skills is through controlling their environment and helping them learn how to control it. This is an opportunity to do just that.
We do not enter this venture blindly. Research, planning, faith, and a great deal of soul searching goes into all we do. I am also not romanticizing the idea of RV living, having spent some time as a child living in an RV.
I believe, in this case, I will leave you with an adage I have taught my autistic daughter, and she has learned and lived by beautifully for years now. You should never judge another by her journey because you do not know the struggles she underwent to get where she is.