I snipped some details but they are from the 1990 model, so they may be right or totally wrong??? But maybe a place to start the looking?
In this area is where it shows on the 90 model. Left side like in front of driver but I can't say if under hood or under floor??? I have a snip of what to look for and maybe you can find the starter on the engine? That will have a big finger size battery cable that goes to this part and that may help find it???
A different way that may/may not help is to listen for a thump when somebody presses the momentary side of the dash switch. This is a big set of contacts and if kind of quiet, you may be able to tell where it is when it moves to close?? Thump, thump thump every time it is pressed to momentary?
They call one a solenoid and the other a relay but just different shapes! This 90 model shows there should be a shiny metal can shape that makes the connection between coach/AUX and chassis when the button is pressed. Several big battery cables go to it!
Chassis bat on left and coach bat on right big lugs! Inside is kind of like a silver dollar on a metal shaft. When it connects the silver dollar slaps again the ends of the two big lugs! Thump!
Then somewhere close is the relay that disconnects the coach battery. Often a black plastic looking item and this drawing is pretty much what they do look like whenyou find it.
Both may not be turned like this drawing shows but the same shape? When in driver's seat and press the button, do you hear a thump down around your knee? But it does need battery to make it move!
This shows 5-6 battery cables going to much the same spot, so maybe find cables and follow them?
If you find this relay, there should be several small wires that run from a switch inside to control opening/closing this relay. Maybe if you find the switch, you could hear this move but it is no0t nearly as big and noisy as the other . But I do expect them to be close together, so find one, maybe find the other? Anything like this just under the hod on the left side in front of driver?