This video will explain how you want to balance the WC so you can turn on both your stove and your furnace… by adjusting the propane tank regulator. (Not the regulator at the stove.)
W.C. Test Video (Thank you Darin for sharing your expertise with us!):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?reload=9&v=SD1qcH_hNYY
Of course, who owns a Water Column? ...So maybe this is what your tech needs to do. Did he?
Also, since gas follows the formula PV=nRT, and since V, n, and R are all constants... they can be dropped from the equation leaving P = T, meaning Pressure is dependent on Temperature.
So as temperature changes so does the pressure in your tank, which is maybe why one day your gas ignited in one appliance, but not another; and then on another day you can light both.