I see from your profile that you have a 2005 Itasca Suncruiser 35A. It's always a good idea to state all this up front so we don't have to look for it. Better yet, go to the User CP on the toolbar and set up a signature block similar to mine so it's always there whenever you post.
Back to your problem. I'm no expert but I've dealt with some HWW problems on my 2002 Suncruiser 35U. First, if the solenoids (what you're calling valves) on your pump are operating properly, there shouldn't be any pressure applied to one system (slide or jack) when operating one of the other systems. Here's a link to a resource from HWH that explains the solenoids (see 4-2.1.2):
https://www.hwhcorp.com/ml57000-016.html#_4-2.1.2__
Your best bet for some expert advice is to contact azpete via private message. He's a Winnieowner who's also an HWH employee who's helped out me and many others with HWH issues:
https://www.winnieowners.com/forums/...ete-13211.html