Here is an update on our setting up to tow 4down with our 2013 Mini Cooper S Coupe (2 door hatchback).
I decided to not butcher the Mini wiring and go with magnetic tail lights (WoneNice Magnetic LED Submersible Trailer Tail Light Kit, $28-no longer available). The lights will be mounted on the hatch. The magnets are covered with a fabric to they won't scratch the paint.
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I ran a cable for the magnetic tail lights through the firewall. I removed the battery that exposed a plastic cap that covered a rubber bladder. The rubber bladder had a nipple (about 1/4" diameter) that I snipped off to allow the wiring for the lights along with a 12 volt charge line and ground from the RV.
I wired up a 12 vdc auxiliary plug (from the 12 vdc and ground from the RV) for the Roadmaster Even Brake that I bought on craigslist ($150). I also ran a cable from the break away switch mounted in the grille area going to the Even Brake controller.
I bought a Roadmaster Falcon All-Terrain tow bar ($140) on Craigslist and bought the base plate from eTrailer. I installed the base plate myself after getting a quote from Camping World for over $4000 for parts and installation including lighting kit, relay, base plate etc. I figure the savings was around $2000. The installation was not without headaches. Removing and replacing the front of the Mini was complicated by a radiator replacement by a previous owner and damage caused by the Acme tow dolly. I plan to have a body shop replace the tongue and air dam that was damaged by the tow dolly for around $300.
Everything has tested good in the garage. The next step is to hook everything up to the RV and do a road test to make sure the Even Brake actuates properly.