My Aspect is the 30J.....
Right now I'm fully loaded with all the " stuff " we will bring with us for our trip. I'm going to inflate to 60-65 lbs today....hook up the toad and top off the fuel tank.... and take it for a ride and see how it handles before we leave in the morning. If need be...I'll take it up to 75-80 lbs.
Its been a delicate balance downsizing from a 40' Phaeton to our 30' Aspect. From having all the things you want Vs only the things you need.....but its been a run ride so far.
I built two shelves in the rear lift up storage compartment on the Aspect.......I don't think the load is as heavy as it looks. Its not real heavy stuff....just bulky stuff. ( baby BBQ...folding chairs...shade tent.....outdoor mat and a small toolbox ) but the shelves keep it organized and easy to find things.
Safe travels all..........and thanks for the advice.........